On February 14 many of us will show our love for that special person in our lives, perhaps with flowers or a meal out. Unpaid carers show their love 24/7, day in, day out.
In our recent Short Breaks Survey, we found that most adult carers who took a break (80.5%), are providing high intensity caring of at least 50+ hours a week. It is usually an exhausting, stressful and often isolating role. However, many carers also feel a sense of pride and happiness, knowing they are providing invaluable support to a person they love.
As one carer who took part in a short break with Neath Port Talbot Carers Service explains, “Being a carer is tiring, emotionally draining and unforgiving. But being a carer is also very rewarding and a comfort to know that what I do makes my son’s life that little bit brighter.
“Seeing our son happy makes us feel happy, and I have learnt more about my own strengths, which if I had not been a carer I possibly would not have known."
There is light at the end of the tunnel when you feel a sense of satisfaction from making a real difference to the life of the person you care for.
Ray of Light Cancer Support shares a moving story with us about a gentleman they support who recently attended a love spoon making workshop. As the full-time carer for his terminally ill wife, his days are filled with the demanding tasks of caring, but they are also filled with a profound love that guides every action.
When he heard about the love spoon workshop, he saw an opportunity to create something special for his wife. The Welsh tradition of crafting love spoons dates back centuries, a symbol of devotion and affection. He poured his heart into every detail of the spoon, each carved pattern a reflection of their shared journey and the deep bond they share.
The workshop became more than just an activity- it was a therapeutic escape, a chance for him to express his love in a tangible way. As he carefully crafted the spoon, he found himself reminiscing about their life together, the joy and laughter they’ve shared, and the strength that has carried them through the tough times.
When he presented the finished love spoon to his wife, her eyes sparkled with tears of joy. The spoon wasn't just a piece of wood; it was a symbol of his unwavering love and commitment.
These examples highlight the strong bonds carers hold for their loved ones. They also show how a short break or activity can contribute to moments of beauty and connection, even amidst the most difficult of circumstances.